Tag: sex

Why Your Wife Will Never Accept a Substitute for Your Heart

He was a workaholic and a sportsaholic when he wasn’t working. She waited. And then there was his beloved restoration project of that ‘65 Mustang. She smiled. “It looks nice” she would say . . . as she waited. Months went by of leaving home early, working late, and then working hard on that golf swing on…
The Best Aphrodisiac Every Christian Husband Can Afford

Many men spend years wishing their wives would be more responsive. Why doesn’t she show more interest in, or desire for me in bed? (She has her reasons, guaranteed) but your frustration builds. Not only is a sense of deprivation gnawing away – emotional distance between you grows. And then there’s the anger . .…
The Mistake Christian Husbands and Wives Should Avoid in the Bedroom

It’s natural to think that your body belongs to you. After all, you’re the one living in it, right? But natural and biblical thinking often conflict. According to the Bible, your body (if you’re a married Christian) has two other owners. Don’t you know that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost .…
Sex: The One Chore No Wife Should Ever Do {and how husbands can make sure they stop doing it}

Many wives feel the work facing them is never done. For the diligent manager of her home, she lives this reality every day. It’s nonstop. And then there’s sex. Unless you’re wealthy enough to pay others to do the work, the old adage, A woman’s work is never done, is something most wives feel…
Should You Confess to Your Spouse? (or Spare Her/Him the Pain?)

Does it make sense to confess your sin to your spouse and drag him/her through all the pain or should just keep your sin between you and God? What should you tell your wife (or your husband) about the struggle you’re having? Anything? Faithfulness in marriage cuts both directions but for the Christian, the Bible lays the…
Why Normal People are Curious about 50 Shades of Grey

Timing is everything in a culture that is on the make for the next buck. And 50 shades of Grey doesn’t disappoint . . . just in time for the multinational holiday about true, romantic, sincere, beautiful, passionate, committed love. Happy Valentine’s Day! This cerebral sewer delivery system is near universally condemned as an artistic failure…
Why Christian Kids Should Save Kissing (and other things) for Marriage.

Get a group of Christian teens together and sooner or later the subject of all things physical prior to marriage is going to surface . . . What should you tell them? “How far should we go?” or “Is kissing okay?” Here’s what’s not okay when it comes to the subject of premarital anything: Parents…
Five Powerful Precautions for Faithfulness in Marriage

What man or woman intends to cheat on his/her spouse after the wedding day? On that day, it’s smiles vows and anticipation of a great future together. Even so, many choose this destructive path — and for what? A few moments of self-gratification? Was it worth it? The Bible does say that sin is pleasurable. . . for a season.…
When You’re Busy Loving Each Other There’s Less Time For Temptation

That Christians and Christianity have the reputation for being a little “up tight” when it comes to the subject of sex should make everyone laugh, it really should. Talk about unbiblical! First of all, there was a garden, where God placed a naked man and woman . . . husband and wife, and said all…
He Wants Far More Than You Think – Why Sex Is Never Enough For A Good Man

Listening to the popular media, you come away with the idea that there are about four good men left on planet earth. It’s not true. There are millions of Good Men – men who love their wives and kids; men who are faithful to their families and the God they serve; noble men who do…
3 Things He Can’t Live Without: 3 Things She Has to Have

It is possible to stay alive with a little water and a a crust of bread. It’s unhealthy. It’s no fun . . . but it is possible. And, even though no one would choose survival rations when it comes to our bodies, too often spouses make that choice when it comes to marriage. Is…