Tag: Matt Jacobson

  • Kiss Her Like It’s The First Time, Every Time

    Do you remember when you kissed each other the first time? Lisa and I sure do . . . not because it was an epic, romantic kiss. It was more like, “Husband and Wife do Stand Up Comedy!” Our front teeth clunked together like two blocks of wood! At first, we weren’t sure what happened.…

  • The Bible and Better Sex For Husbands and Wives

    The Bible and Better Sex For Husbands and Wives

    One of the big expectations for marriage is a great sex life. Some have challenges right from the start but for many, the early days/months/years are just that – great! Yet, despite the hopes and intentions, ‘life’ has a way of sapping the energy, focus, frequency, and joy right out of this aspect of so…

  • Should You Forgive Your Husband/Wife?

    Should You Forgive Your Husband/Wife?

    Has your husband or wife ever offended you? Is the sky blue?!! Even in healthy marriage, offenses of various kinds are pretty common, aren’t they? At some point (maybe happening right now!) your spouse is going to do something, say something, even think something that you will find offensive. And then, there are the big…

  • Words of Affirmation: Bringing Life and Love to Your Husband, Wife, and Kids

    Words of Affirmation: Bringing Life and Love to Your Husband, Wife, and Kids

    The voices everywhere around us are powerful . . . and mostly negative. When was the last time advertising told a wife, mother, or single woman that, “You’re enough” or “You have a full, rich, meaningful life” or “You’re beautiful just the way you are”?  . . . almost never! And, those voices aren’t just…

  • Why Your Wife Will Never Accept a Substitute for Your Heart

    Why Your Wife Will Never Accept a Substitute for Your Heart

    He was a workaholic and a sportsaholic when he wasn’t working. She waited. And then there was his beloved restoration project of that ‘65 Mustang. She smiled. “It looks nice” she would say . . . as she waited. Months went by of leaving home early, working late, and then working hard on that golf swing on…

  • Just Because You’re Right Doesn’t Mean You’re not Destroying Your Marriage

    Just Because You’re Right Doesn’t Mean You’re not Destroying Your Marriage

    Sometimes being right . . . insisting on how right we are . . . is very wrong. But, we love being “right” don’t we? In the midst of an intense discussion (argument!) about something, we feel the surge of adrenaline when besting the other person, and who doesn’t love winning? Hey, the facts were…