Tag: dating

Are You a Single Christian Man? Should You Be Faithful to Your Wife Before You Meet Her?

When discipling single men, eventually I ask, “Are you faithful to your wife?” They look quizzically at me and explain, “But, I”m not married.” “So, it’s okay to be unfaithful to your wife before you meet her?” “Well, I’m not sleeping around.” “So, that’s the standard? No sex before marriage? What about all the stuff…
Encouragement for The Worn Out Mom . . . & How Men can Be a Blessing to Their Wives

Motherhood is beautiful . . . it’s also the hardest job in the world! And, while rewarding at times, it’s an endeavor designed to make even the most devoted, intelligent, hardworking, committed, efficient mom bone tired . . . so tired that as soon as she gets up from a nap, she could go right…
Give Your Marriage a Present!

Thanksgiving, Christmas Time , New Years just around the corner . . it’s the holiday season and I find myself thinking about where we’ve been, where we’re headed, and of the hope we have for the future. Can you relate? As you think about where your marriage is today compared to last year, many of…
Marriage Weekend: Why Smart Husbands Ensure Their Wife Feels Heard and Understood

So, let me guess . . . communication in your marriage is always smooth, easy, tension-free, positive, and usually ends with everyone feeling heard and understood. For some, maybe, but for most . . . not so much! Most husbands and wives have to work hard to communicate clearly and positively. As I look back…
Stop Doing This And Your Marriage Will Improve Immediately! (And So Will You!)

Marriage is supposed to be a safe place, somewhere you can relax and just be yourself – completely accepted – without the fear of being poorly thought of, misunderstood, or regularly criticized. Close, loving, comfortable . . . and safe. Does this describe your marriage? If so, congratulations! It’s awesome, isn’t it! But, I can…
What Your Wife Can’t Live Without – (Do You Know What It Is?)

Recharged and refilled or dry and empty . . . which one will your wife be based on your care of her heart this week? Your needs are being met but, are hers? A pitcher of water and your wife are alike. Both pour out until they are empty. Anyone can refill the pitcher but…
Kiss Her Like It’s The First Time, Every Time

Do you remember when you kissed each other the first time? Lisa and I sure do . . . not because it was an epic, romantic kiss. It was more like, “Husband and Wife do Stand Up Comedy!” Our front teeth clunked together like two blocks of wood! At first, we weren’t sure what happened.…
Christian Kids Dating in a “Hook-up” Culture

We talk a lot about the importance of dating your husband/wife after marriage but, dating before marriage . . . it’s minefield for just about everyone! From Josh Harris’s book, ‘I kissed dating goodbye’ to ‘anything goes on your first date’, it’s a pretty confusing, difficult world for a young Christian trying to navigate in a…
Why Isn’t My Wife More Interested in Sex with Me? How to Increase Her Desire

Do you have a healthy, positive, fulfilling sex life in your marriage? Many do, but I hear from men all the time (and increasingly women) that their spouse isn’t interested in sex or is indifferent. And while this issue relates to both husbands and wives, in this post, we’re focusing on men whose wives have…
10 Top Marriage Tips for Better EVERYTHING!

Over this past week, what has been your contribution to the quality of your marriage? When it comes to our part in marriage, sometimes we’re focused on the priorities God has established for our marriage in His Word and, while it may not be perfect, it’s pretty good and heading in the right direction! Is…
Why You Should Continue Dating Your Girlfriend Even After You’re Married!

Remember when you met the woman you we’re going to spend the rest of your life with? It was awesome, wasn’t it?! You loved her. You loved spending time with her. You loved talking, walking, sharing life . . . sharing everything! And what you did, especially well back then – you made her feel…
Listening and Being Heard – Communication in Marriage and How to Get it Right!

Communication in marriage . . . there’s a problem because . . . There’s what I said There’s what Lisa heard me say There’s what I thought I said New Episode Now Playing! It get’s complicated . . . and, it can be pretty funny . . . or not . . . and Lisa…