Author archive for Matthew L. Jacobson

  • Secure Wife – Insecure Wife . . . which one do you have?

    Does the responsibility of bringing security to the marriage relationship go both ways? Is this a matter for husband and…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • I Wish For You A Normal Christian Marriage

    Weddings and awkward moments aren’t supposed to go together but when the groom faints and falls on the pastor, the…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • Should You Remove the Armor from Your Heart and Fully Forgive?

    Real forgiveness in many marriages is in short supply these days . . . which makes sense because who in…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • If Marriage Won’t Keep A Heart From Wandering, What Will?

    Wandering . . . nothing is more natural to the undisciplined heart – and it doesn’t have to be the…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • The Best Aphrodisiac Every Christian Husband Can Afford

    Many men spend years wishing their wives would be more responsive. Why doesn’t she show more interest in, or desire…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • There’s More Room in a Broken Heart (God’s use of the pain we live through)

    Every morning since he was about 8, my son Dauntless goes out to the chicken coop to collect the eggs.…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • The Secret Elite Golfers Know That Will Greatly Improve Your Marriage

    He wasn’t a Samurai Warrior but in a one-one-one battle, with all his flailing at the ball on the driving…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • Are You Making This Easy-to-Avoid MARRIAGE MISTAKE? (small change – massive positive impact!)

    Writing about marriage means you’ve basically got it all down and get it perfect every time . . . not…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • Just Because You’re Right . . . Doesn’t Mean You’re not Destroying Your Marriage

    We love being “right” don’t we? In the midst of an intense discussion (argument!) about something, we feel the surge…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • When You Pray to God, Don’t Take “No” for an Answer

    Trouble. Time to pray. It was a bad situation and getting worse. You prayed – earnestly, sincerely, agonizingly – you…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • THE MYTH (LIE) OF INCOMPATIBILITY IN MARRIAGE – The Problem Isn’t That You’re Incompatible . . . So What Is The Problem?

    The power of what you believe will change the course of your life. So, you’d better make sure you believe the…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
  • How to Find and Marry the Perfect Woman – a letter to young men

    Dear Son, Every young man wants to marry someone amazing – the perfect woman. I’m sure you’ve spent a lot…

    By Matthew L. Jacobson
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